Result of wins and loses are easy to measure and powerful to experience.
But often these are short-term thrills, and across the many ups-and-downs, it is easily dismiss-able from our memory.
When we focus on short-term results, our mind are buried into looking at certain outcomes, and chess improvement is anything but certain.
On the other hand, the process to improve the craft is what matters in the long term, and we are in control when making the effort.
While working on the side hustle of teaching, I see the parallel of improving teaching methods to the process of chess improvements.
Rinse and Grind
In any training day, the calculation exercise that you work on, or the endgame study that you struggle with will not show result immediately.
They are, however, the seed of improvements. And it is by repeating the exercises day in and day out that the seed will blossom.
Teaching chess is similar, looking thru 1 game or 1 puzzle will not give me enough information to understand what is the student missing.
But the process of continuing to observe will slowly reveal patterns.
No one knows how long it will take us to the promise land. But we CAN control the effort.
Focus on the Craft!
Put in more effort and worry less about the result.